Howie's Auto Biography
I was born August 22, 1973, in Orlando, Florida at Orange Memorial Hospital, and I
lived in the same house my whole life. My dad is a retired police officer- He was a police
officer up until I was 12 years old. We're a family of five kids. My parents have been
together well over 40 years. There's 10 years difference between me and the next youngest
sibling, so I kind of came to my parents a little later on in life. I have a brother
Johnny-he's 34; my sister Polly-Anna, is 36; I have another sister who's 38 and she's
named Caroline. And then there's Angie, she's 40. I was an uncle at four years old! When I
was a little kid, about three or four, I used to get up on my grandma's bed and sit with
my little guitar and sing "Baby Face" (That was my favorite tune then). When my
sister was in her senior year of high school, she started getting into entertainment and
she brought me along. She's just like me: a singer, dancer, and actor. She got me involved
in her first play. The Wizard of Oz. She was Glenda the good witch and I
was a little munchkin, one of the lollipop guys. I rememeber having these pants that were
two sizes too big and I'd be running around dancingholding my pants up, because they'd be
falling down the whole time...
I found other kids in my school involved with theater and taking voice lessons and they
told me about a voice teacher and an acting troupe for kids called "Show
Stoppers". For four years, in elementary school, I was heavily involved with plays,
one play after the next. I was a little ham!- I would sing higher notes than the girls
next to me! I sang in the childrens choir at my church, and then I went into the men's
choir. I sang throughout high school. When I was about 14, I had a silent bit part in the
movie Parenthood and I was also in Cop and a Half. I made
the transition into television when Universal Studios moved down here. I was also in the
TV pilot for Welcome Freshman for Nickelodeon. I was also in several
commercials.... When I was a little kid, and I did that part in The Wizard of Oz,
I used to always pretend I had stage fright. I'd go off to the side and I would put on
this big act, because I'd get so much attention. But as I got older, I really did start to
get nervous before a show! I don't think [nerves] ever leave you. That's what keeps you
going, those little butterflies. The day I lose that will be the day I lose touch with
reality. I don't think I was really spoiled, but I was given a lot more than my brother
and sisters, who were older. All my [siblings] were there for me- always very caring and
understanding. They would make me go around to their high school and show me off to their
friends. They didn't tell me what to do, but I would always go to them for advise on girls
or school. My mom's Spanish, and we have a large family...here and in Puerto Rico. For me,
having my dad as a cop... he was strict, not in a bad way. He would make sure we were
responsible for our actions. He's really always been a good dad. As for school, I was
selected 'Most Talented' in my high school year book, and I've done two years of college.
I have an Associate of Arts Degree. Looking back now, I think I was a pretty good little
kid. The worst I can remember doing was when I was little, I raked all the leaves in the
backyard and I threw them over the fence into the neighbour's backyard!... Household
chores weren't a big part of my growing up. My brother and sister were like, 'You really
lucked out. When we younger we always had like a week in the kitchen.' But when I was
growing up, they were always there to do the chores for me. I did kind of luck out! In
junior high, I was really interested in girls, but, I could never keep a relationship,
because i was already career-oriented. I knew that if I had a girlfriend, I'd be thinking
about her all the time and I wouldn't be able to concentrate on school or my career. A lot
of times, I'd end up having a girlfriend for two or three weeks, if I was lucky. It wasn't
until the later part of high school, that I said that I really want to start dating and
having relationships... I had my first love and I also have my first true love. It's
something I'd never trade in; It's something that was a learning experience. One was a
singing partner of mine for three years; we dated for two. Even as a little kid, when I
used to do acting, I knew her. Even though she was in the entertainment field, it was very
hard for her to understand about me leaving all the time. Her insecurity about me being on
the road, and what everybody told her about people in groups and stuff... she hard a hard
time dealing with it. I actually got my heart broken. With my first girlfriend, I got my
heart broken too. I was trying to make it a relationship. I gave it my all and everything,
but it takes two to tango. I was feeling as if I was sheltered somewhat with my siblings
giving me advice about all this stuff. I felt grown-up mentally about a lot of decisions I
made, but them a lot of times it was hard for me to make those decisions because I hadn't
had a lot of opportunity to make them. Of course, I'm older now and more experienced- and
I feel a lot more confident about who I am and what I want.